This blog was built to promote a new educational system. This system, or thought model, is intended to help you recalibrate, to purify your entire mental activity. We want to achieve this holistically, both consciously and subconsciously. Before doing this, I thought to do a little “warm-up,” with some very simple strategies and very useful. Something similar to physical sports activity.
I will present below one of the simplest and most effective strategies I have designed for you to become the “master of the world.” Let’s give it a name: A.C.C. STRATEGY.
My dear parent-friend,
Even if, for some reason, you will not be able to assimilate and apply all the elements of the system that I will present in this blog, please use at least this strategy. If you are persevering and applying only this strategy in your life and that of your child, you will make a huge leap in your personal development. However, it would be a shame for you not to participate in the global mental revolution’s whole fascinating adventure.
Remember that all the tricks and tips presented in this blog are not stories and fantasies. I experienced all this on a “guinea pig” full of evil thoughts and habits, and they worked with excellent results. It’s about me, of course!
Suppose you arrived tired at home. Consciously or unconsciously, you usually make a brief assessment of the human contacts you have made. You met and communicated with children, young people, adults, and seniors. You talked to relatives, bosses, friends, strangers and … enemies.
Are you satisfied with the balance made? Were all these contacts charming and profitable, or were they also conflicting and disappointing? I could bet that you also had less pleasant contacts. Am I not right?
What if I told you that at this moment, I could give you a magic wand with which you can turn any human contact into a magical and beneficial event? You might get upset, swear at me, and leave this blog forever. Or you might laugh heartily at such an “aberration” and even become a little curious …
I hope he doesn’t swear anymore, and you were left to see what “nonsense” this “crazy” senior blogger invented.
I promised you that everything we do together would be fun. I promised you I wouldn’t call you to work but to play. I have to keep my word. Remember that if you want to enter my profitable game, you have to give up the sobriety and logical rigor. Bring to the surface the playful child who now cries inside you. Call him, apologies to him, hug him lovingly, and give him all the toys you will find in this blog. Only in this way will you obtain and take advantage of all the authentic joys to which you are entitled as a human being.
For starters, sit at a table, take something to write on, and “draw” on the inside of your wrist (which comes in handy) the letters A.C.C.
Then look in a drawer for a round elastic and turn it into a bracelet at the same wrist. The flexible bracelet’s work is not my idea; I found it many years ago in a motivational book. Unfortunately, I forgot the author’s name. If you got here means you’ve made a giant leap, from an ordinary man to a magician’s apprentice. With a little help from me, you can still jump to reach the level of a full magician.
Good morning! You are about to go through a new day full of unpredictable adventures. You are a little worried because some human encounters and contacts are almost impossible to control, and you do not know how they will end. God, what a beautiful dream I had! It was as if an unseen spiritual force had turned me into a magician. Wow! Now I could turn any human contact into a fiesta full of joy.
Oh, my God! Who soiled my hand with these letters, and what is their message? Now that you woke up and remembered everything that happened last night let’s continue your transformation into a real wizard. For this, I have to help you build a new behavioral automatism. Let’s hurry. In a few moments, you have to dive into this human ocean full of sharks … and you have to be well prepared.
We know from the great sages of the world that 95% – 97% of human beings live “of quiet desperation” all their lives. They are led, tyrannized by a traditional mental program full of aberrations, prejudices, and illusions. For this reason, they perceive and create distorted and conflicting realities. All the wars and misfortunes known in humanity’s history are the effects of this state of affairs. This is why we designed this new purifying educational system.
Applying this vision globally, we will be able to reprogram these old and viral mental models beneficially.
Until we get to know and practice the new educational system, we will have to go through several preparatory stages.
I was telling you that the first strategy by which we can harmonize interpersonal relationships is “A.C.C. STRATEGY.” ACCEPTANCE/COMPASSION/CALM.
Letter A symbolizes ACCEPTANCE. Acceptance can also be translated by tolerance or lack of an attitude of criticism or judgment. Even if we do not agree with someone’s vision or behavior, we cannot have a harmonious relationship or a positive influence on that person if we criticize him; judgment is perceived as aggression on oneself, and communication is interrupted.
The next letter C, symbolizes COMPASSION. Compassion is expressed through care, gentleness, love, help, caress, attentive listening. You will tell me that it is nonsense to manifest such emotions towards a human being who is hostile, who offends and aggresses us. I will prove you wrong. Such a being is not to blame for acting up. She is not aggressing you, but the evil mental program she was endowed with. She is an unconscious slave to this program, and helplessly attends its manifestation. The more aberrant the program that manipulates it, the more he needs our compassion.
The last letter C symbolizes CALM. No matter what attitude a communication partner adopts, it would be best to stay calm and quiet. It’s ridiculous to argue or blame something on a program. It’s like arguing with a computer. The one who remains calm in a moment of great emotional tension demonstrates wisdom, self-control, self-confidence, and greatness. Who wins in any dispute? The one who remains calm and rational, of course. Whoever manages to control himself will control the whole Universe!
Whether we like it or not, we humans are social entities. Even if we gossip or fight, we can only survive together. It is estimated that 90% of our material and emotional well-being depends on the quality of the relationships we have with our peers. This information should motivate us to adopt the best possible strategies for harmonizing all interpersonal relationships.
Using these three values or beliefs in a synergistic connection in approaching any relational meeting ensures a particularly harmonious communication. This formula must become a standard attitude, regardless of the partner’s age, training, or status with whom you enter into a relationship.
You do not know what the other person is thinking or feeling, but you know that you have a behavioral habit that is extremely effective in harmonizing interpersonal relationships. Regarding this aspect, Dale Carnegie expressed himself very plastically: “Look carefully at the attitude of a puppy that meets its owner. How happy it is to wag its tail, with how much joy, tenderness, and delight it looks at the man.”
It is an attitude that should be imitated by every human being; Too bad people don’t have a tail …
Use this winning formula, especially in relationships with beings dominated by damaging mental programs. The more hostile and aggressive a human being is, the more he needs your care, help, encouragement, and compassion. You will be perceived as a saving exotic island by a shipwrecked person.
Practically, no matter who he is, smile at him broadly like the most beloved man when you meet a person. Surprise and delight have to be seen in your eyes and on your face.
Do it with sincere emotion. Do not forget that poor man leads a confused and desperate life. You must caress and encourage him. At first, you will not succeed; you will fail to use our miraculous formula. When this happens to you, the elastic bracelet works! Grab it with your fingers and let it go suddenly. You should feel a sharp, unpleasant sting on the skin of your wrist. This will help you remember what to do next.
Don’t be discouraged. It would be best if you REPEATED until it becomes an indestructible automatism. It’s that simple! Then, you will reap the fruits. Don’t forget to train your child in this regard as well. Thus, you will leave him a precious legacy.
What would happen if most people became aware of and automated such a blessed attitude? Of course, it would be a global mental and attitudinal revolution with beneficial effects.